Tracking and spyware on a family member's phone or car

Secretly tracking a relative with a GPS device, a Bluetooth tag, or spyware on their phone can violate stalking, wiretap, computer-access, and state tracking laws. Open, consent-based location sharing, and parents monitoring minor children, are treated very differently.

Jurisdiction
United States — federal and state law
Topic
Family
Last updated
Oct 30, 2026
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General legal information, published for everyone. It does not apply the law to anyone’s particular situation and is not legal advice. Laws change and differ by place; check the primary sources below.

Quick summary

  • There is no single federal law on private GPS tracking, but several federal statutes can apply, including the Wiretap Act, the Stored Communications Act, the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act, and the federal stalking law.
  • Many states have laws specifically on electronic tracking devices, often tied to who owns or leases the vehicle, and a number have extended them to Bluetooth item trackers.
  • Spyware ("stalkerware") installed on another adult's phone without consent can involve interception, unauthorized access, and stalking, and federal law also restricts selling devices designed for surreptitious interception.
  • Consent matters: location sharing that a person knowingly agrees to, and can turn off, is generally lawful. Covert tracking, or sharing that is demanded under pressure, is where legal problems arise.
  • Parents and guardians have more latitude over minor children, and consent-based GPS devices are commonly used for relatives with dementia, but neither is unlimited.

What it means

Tracking means following a person's location or movements over time, using a GPS unit hidden on a vehicle, a Bluetooth tag, a location-sharing feature, or software on the person's phone. Spyware or stalkerware means software, usually installed secretly, that can forward a person's messages, calls, photos, browsing, or location to someone else.

Inside a family, tracking is common and often benign: spouses who share locations, parents who check where teenagers are, and families who use a GPS tag for a relative who wanders. The legal line turns mostly on consent and control. A person who knowingly agrees to be located, and can stop, is on very different footing from a person who does not know a tracker is on their car or that an app is reading their messages.

Because the law here comes from several sources, whether a particular act is illegal depends on the device, who owns it, what it collects, and the state.

Key terms

Stalkerware
Commercially sold spyware marketed for monitoring partners, children, or employees and often installed secretly on a phone. Some apps hide their icons and send data to the installer.
Electronic tracking device
A device that reveals a person's or vehicle's location or movement, such as a GPS unit or Bluetooth tag. State statutes define it in different ways.
Registered owner or lessee
The person whose name is on a vehicle's title, registration, or lease. Several state tracking laws turn on this person's consent.
Location sharing
A feature in phone operating systems and apps that lets a person choose to share their live location with others, which they can usually turn off.
Course of conduct
A pattern of repeated acts, which can include monitoring and tracking, that is central to stalking laws.
Consent
A knowing, voluntary agreement. Consent obtained by threat or pressure, or that has been withdrawn, may not protect the person doing the tracking.

How the law works

Federal statutes that can apply

No federal statute addresses private GPS tracking by name, but several apply depending on the facts. The federal stalking law (18 U.S.C. § 2261A) covers a course of conduct, using the mail, internet, or other facilities, that places a person in reasonable fear or causes substantial emotional distress, and tracking can be part of that conduct. The Wiretap Act (18 U.S.C. § 2511) covers intercepting communications, which is what spyware that captures live calls or messages can do, and § 2512 prohibits manufacturing, selling, or advertising devices whose design makes them primarily useful for the surreptitious interception of communications. The Stored Communications Act (18 U.S.C. § 2701) and Computer Fraud and Abuse Act (18 U.S.C. § 1030) cover unauthorized access to accounts and devices.

The constitutional cases people often cite about GPS, United States v. Jones, 565 U.S. 400 (2012), and Carpenter v. United States, 585 U.S. 296 (2018), limit what the government may do. They do not directly regulate private individuals, although they reflect how seriously courts treat location data as private information.

State tracking-device laws

Many states make it a crime to place a tracking device on someone else's vehicle or to track a person without consent. Details vary. California Penal Code § 637.7 prohibits using an electronic tracking device to determine the location or movement of a person without the consent of the owner, lessor, or lessee of the vehicle, with exceptions, including for the registered owner or lessee. Texas Penal Code § 16.06 makes it an offense to knowingly install an electronic or mechanical tracking device on a motor vehicle owned or leased by another person, subject to listed exceptions. Because these laws often turn on vehicle ownership, who is on the title and registration matters, and a car that is jointly owned or owned by one spouse and used by another raises hard questions. A number of states have also enacted laws aimed at using Bluetooth item trackers to follow a person.

Spyware on a phone

Installing spyware on another adult's phone usually requires access to the device, and that act, together with what the software then does, can implicate several laws at once: accessing the device without authorization (state computer-crime laws and the Computer Fraud and Abuse Act), intercepting live communications (the Wiretap Act and state eavesdropping laws), accessing stored data (the Stored Communications Act), and stalking. Merely paying for or owning the phone is not necessarily enough: authority generally depends on whose device it is and whether the user knows about and agrees to the monitoring.

The Federal Trade Commission has also taken action against stalkerware makers, including settlements with Retina-X Studios (2019) and an order against Support King, LLC, the maker of SpyFone (2021) that barred the company and its chief executive from the surveillance business. Apple and Google also publish guidance and, for some trackers, send alerts when an unknown tag is moving with a person.

Location sharing with consent

Using a built-in location-sharing feature or a family-locator app is generally lawful when each adult knowingly agrees and can stop. Problems arise when sharing is demanded as a condition of the relationship, when it continues after consent is withdrawn, or when it is paired with other conduct that frightens or controls the person. Courts and advocates look at the whole pattern, not only whether a toggle was switched on.

Parents, minor children, and the other parent

Parents and guardians of minor children generally have broad authority to supervise a child's whereabouts, and many state tracking statutes exempt parents and guardians of minors. Open monitoring tied to the child's age is the safest ground. Covertly capturing a child's private conversations raises wiretap issues, and monitoring that harasses or controls an older teenager can be viewed unfavorably. When parents are separated, one parent tracking the child's device, or the other parent's movements through the child's device, can become an issue in custody and protective-order disputes.

Older relatives and relatives with cognitive decline

GPS devices for people who may wander, including those living with dementia, are widely used. They are most defensible when the person agrees while able to, or when a legal decision-maker such as a guardian or an agent under a power of attorney authorizes them within the scope of that authority. Family members do not gain unlimited authority over an adult relative simply because the relative has become more vulnerable, and facilities and states have their own rules about cameras and monitoring.

Consequences

Depending on the facts, covert tracking can lead to criminal charges (stalking, unlawful tracking, computer crime, or interception), civil lawsuits for damages and injunctions, and protective orders. Courts can also consider tracking in custody, support, and property decisions. A protective order can specifically prohibit contacting, following, or tracking a person.

If someone suspects they are being tracked

Privacy advocates note that signs can include an abuser repeatedly knowing where a person has been, an unfamiliar device on a vehicle, or a phone alert about an unknown tracker. In abusive situations, removing a device or app can alert the person doing the tracking and may destroy evidence, so domestic-violence advocates commonly help with planning before acting. The National Domestic Violence Hotline (1-800-799-7233) and the NNEDV Safety Net technology-safety resources provide confidential guidance. This is general information, not legal or safety advice for a particular situation.

Examples

Hypothetical example

A hidden tag in an ex-spouse's car

After separating, one spouse hides a Bluetooth tag in the other spouse's car to learn where they go. In a state with a vehicle-tracking statute that turns on the owner's consent, the tracking may be a crime if the car belongs to the other spouse. It can also support a stalking charge or a protective order, regardless of whether the couple is still legally married.

Hypothetical example

Location sharing between a parent and a teenager

A parent and a 15-year-old agree that the teen will share their phone location while driving, and the teen can see the setting. Open location sharing for a minor child, with the child's knowledge, is generally lawful.

Hypothetical example

A GPS shoe insole for a father with dementia

An adult daughter, acting under a healthcare power of attorney her father signed while he had capacity, arranges a GPS insole after he wanders from home. Using a device with the decision-maker's authority and for safety is generally treated differently from covert surveillance, though the scope of the document and state law still matter.

Common questions

Is it legal to put a GPS tracker on a car I own that a family member drives?

It varies. Some state laws exempt the registered owner or lessee, while others focus on tracking a person without that person's consent. Jointly owned vehicles, and tracking used to follow or harass a particular person, can still create liability under stalking and other laws.

Can a spouse install monitoring software on a phone the couple shares?

Shared ownership does not remove privacy protections for another adult's private communications. Interception, stored-communications, and computer-access laws can still apply, and the answer depends on the state, the software, and whether the other spouse knew about and agreed to it.

Do parents need a child's consent to track their phone?

For minor children, parents generally have broad authority, and many state statutes exempt parents and guardians. Open, age-appropriate monitoring is the least likely to cause legal problems, while secretly recording private conversations is riskier.

Can tracking be used as evidence in a stalking or protective-order case?

Yes. Logs of tracker activity, spyware data, or alerts can be evidence of a course of conduct, and courts may consider them in protective-order, custody, and criminal proceedings.

Does location sharing stop being lawful if consent is withdrawn?

Consent can generally be withdrawn by an adult. Continuing to track after consent ends, or pressuring a person to keep sharing, can change a lawful arrangement into unlawful monitoring or part of a pattern of control.

Important distinctions

Location sharing vs. covert tracking

Location sharing is a feature the person knowingly switches on and can switch off. Covert tracking is hidden from the person, which is usually what makes it unlawful.

Tracking a vehicle vs. tracking a person

Some state statutes are written around vehicle ownership, others around following a person without consent. A tracker on a car the tracker owns can still be unlawful if it is used to stalk the driver.

Location tracking vs. content spyware

Location data shows where a person goes. Spyware that captures messages, calls, or photos also implicates wiretap and stored-communications laws, which carry their own penalties and civil remedies.

Primary sources

  • Statute18 U.S.C. § 2261AStalkingUnited States (federal)
  • Statute18 U.S.C. §§ 2511, 2512Wiretap Act — interception and interception devicesUnited States (federal)§ 2512 addresses devices designed primarily for surreptitious interception.
  • Statute18 U.S.C. § 2701Stored Communications Act — unlawful accessUnited States (federal)
  • Statute18 U.S.C. § 1030Computer Fraud and Abuse ActUnited States (federal)
  • CaseUnited States v. Jones, 565 U.S. 400 (2012)United States (federal)Government GPS tracking of a vehicle is a Fourth Amendment search; limits government, not private persons.
  • CaseCarpenter v. United States, 585 U.S. 296 (2018)United States (federal)Government access to historical cell-site location data generally requires a warrant.
  • StatuteCal. Penal Code § 637.7Electronic tracking devicesCaliforniaAn example of a state tracking-device statute with an owner/lessee exception.
  • StatuteTex. Penal Code § 16.06Unlawful installation of tracking deviceTexasAn example of a state statute on tracking devices on vehicles owned or leased by another person.
  • Agency guidanceFTC enforcement actions against stalkerware developersUnited States (federal)Includes the 2019 Retina-X Studios settlement and the 2021 order against Support King, LLC (SpyFone).
  • Official sourceNational Domestic Violence HotlineUnited StatesConfidential support at 1-800-799-7233.

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Last updated
Oct 30, 2026
Jurisdiction
United States — federal and state law
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House Legal editorial (AI-assisted)